psychological abuse cases Don't BLAME the victim! - How can we heal without tellling our story?

Survivor of complications from Weight Loss Surgery? Survivor of abuse? Telling our stories is essential for healing. Don't listen to the forgive-and-forget crowd. Acknowledge what you've been through first!

Many of us stay silent out of embarrassment or shame.Victim-blaming is common when we open our mouths to tell our stories.

People might try to minimize our pain by saying that others have it worse than us or that we weren't physically abused and therefore shouldn't "complain". Victims of abuse stay silent to avoid negative reactions from friends and family that reinforce feelings of self-blame. Being silenced reinforces uncertainty about whether our experiences qualified as abuse.

We need people to listen. We need people who will validate us and our experience.

Find a safe place and OPEN YOUR MOUTH!

Healing, forgiveness, moving on, or whatever is next for you can't happen until you've been heard, validated, and encouraged to feel the feelings you weren't permitted to feel during the abusive relationship / childhood.

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psychological abuse cases Don't BLAME the victim! - How can we heal without tellling our story?
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